Hey there
Ever wonder what people have tucked in their minds? What they're actually thinking. How they actually feel?
I have 3 brothers, 3 sisters and parents that both have strong personalities, they tell me things about themselves. what they like, what they don't like but most of the time they don't really express how they really feel.
Many researchers, psychologist say that people tell the truth when they're in a trance...I personally think that when a person is angry...'most' of the truth comes out.
Yeah its true that we say pretty bad things when we're angry but notice that after we 'lay the heat' on someone we instantly feel better? The words must have come out from somewhere. Right? I think when we're angry we don't have time to think and construct words into sentences. everything that comes out is purely on how we feel and what we wish we could say out loud.
I'm not saying that you have to stab someone for the truth, I'm just saying that you won't get the truth from someone when they're in a sane state of mind, conscious, in control and well...THINKING. A person can promise all they want that they are being truthful but in reality, that could be just another lie.
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
The Wounded Heart by Robert Herrick
Have you ever felt that everything in life is going your way but then one day you wake up and notice the people around you just hates you because they just can't stand seeing you happy? Before you know it, they start creating lies, creating the perfect story to make others dislike you as well. Just so that they will feel a little bit of happiness, watching you suffer, watching you cry over their actions. Trust me people like this exist.
It could be the person you trust your life with, the person you had no idea existed or even your own blood.
When something like this happens, trust me, you would not be shocked, surprised...overwhelmed. You'd just be, HURT!
So, my advice is...be hurt. be nasty. feel the pain and then learn from it. Who cares if this saying is cheesy : what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...its the truth.
Like I said, be hurt, feel the bitterness, hate everyone you know for a while that put you down and then...trust me on this one, you will find it in your heart to forgive but NEVER forget them. You learn from them and try your best not to be like them. I did.
Even though people I love sometimes hurt me, occasionally I do the same but life must go on. Better to have a bumpy road than an even one.This is so that you would never fall asleep and be off guard.
so...stop feeling that self pity you feel because things will be better than before. So what if things might get even worse. Life is priceless.
I know this great poem by Robert Herrick. It suits to whatever I'm saying. Enjoy...
It could be the person you trust your life with, the person you had no idea existed or even your own blood.
When something like this happens, trust me, you would not be shocked, surprised...overwhelmed. You'd just be, HURT!
So, my advice is...be hurt. be nasty. feel the pain and then learn from it. Who cares if this saying is cheesy : what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...its the truth.
Like I said, be hurt, feel the bitterness, hate everyone you know for a while that put you down and then...trust me on this one, you will find it in your heart to forgive but NEVER forget them. You learn from them and try your best not to be like them. I did.
Even though people I love sometimes hurt me, occasionally I do the same but life must go on. Better to have a bumpy road than an even one.This is so that you would never fall asleep and be off guard.
so...stop feeling that self pity you feel because things will be better than before. So what if things might get even worse. Life is priceless.
I know this great poem by Robert Herrick. It suits to whatever I'm saying. Enjoy...
| Come, bring your sampler, and with art Draw in't a wounded heart, And dropping here and there; Not that I think that any dart Can make your's bleed a tear, Or pierce it any where; Yet do it to this end,--that I May by This secret see, Though you can make That heart to bleed, your's ne'er will ache For me. |
Thursday, September 16, 2010
The Idealism Of KARMA
Karma, alot of people are well aware what this word mean. most fear it or try to avoid negative Karma.
Lets just say that, I was bullied and wronged when i was studying, now i find out that the people who have wronged me are going through hard times. Im not happy about this but i must say i am most utterly thankful that God puts meaning to the word for me. I know now that i dont have to worry, God has got my back. =)
Lets just say that, I was bullied and wronged when i was studying, now i find out that the people who have wronged me are going through hard times. Im not happy about this but i must say i am most utterly thankful that God puts meaning to the word for me. I know now that i dont have to worry, God has got my back. =)
Monday, September 6, 2010
The reason WHY
I know that no one actually reads the blogs i write. i do this for myself. it makes me feel well...heard, in a way. Hopefully i will end the sadness and will always be a person who only talks about happy thoughts. Happy happy happ thoughts. Hopefully.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
human nature
Human nature is the concept that there is a set of inherent distinguishing characteristics, including ways of thinking, feeling and acting, that humans tend to have.
Free will and determinism
The issue of free will and determinism underlies much of the debate about human nature. Free will, or agency, refers to the ability of humans to make genuinely free choices (in some sense). As it relates to humans, the thesis of determinism implies that human choices are fully caused by internal and external forces
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
What bored people do
THINGS YOU CAN DO WITH ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
Blink wildly and then close your eyes really tight for an interesting light show
(Amusement Potential: 1-5 minutes)
See a variety of blobs, stars and flashes. Try to make out shapes and see if your subconscious is trying to send you a message (perhaps that funny shape is saying, 'send all your money to urban75.com'?)
See how long you can hold a note
(Amusement Potential: 4-20 minutes)
Not that much fun, but it sure passes the time. Play with a friend, or try to beat your own personal best. Inhale deeply and then try and make a noise for as long as you can. Earn extra points for making your partner laugh or ending on an amusing note.
Try to not think about penguins
(Amusement Potential: 1-5 minutes)
This is especially hard, because by trying too much, you remember what you were trying to avoid thinking of. If you try too little, you end up thinking about penguins anyway.
Use your secret mind power
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Pick a passing by and try to use your mind power to command them do something, like drop their bag or knock into someone. The law of averages dictates that sooner or later one of your mind commands will come true, so you can convince yourself that you really have super human powers and waste even more time trying them out.
Pretend you're a robot
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
Walk down the street with mechanical movements, adding 'zzzzzt' sounds with each motion. Pretending to have a motor broken in, say, your left hand can add at least 30 seconds more entertainment.
Scratch yourself
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
Go ahead, scratch yourself now. Even if nothing itches, go ahead. Doesn't that feel pretty good?
Rate passers by
(Amusement Potential: 10-15 minutes)
Secretly award passers by marks out of ten as you go along, offering (unsaid) expert criticism over their clothing, hairstyle and footwear choices.
Repeat the same word over and over until it loses its meaning
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
Pick a random word out of a magazine and say it aloud to yourself until it becomes a meaningless set of noises.
Pinch yourself
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
What is pain? Why is it unpleasant? There's nothing physical about it - it's all in your mind. Plus, after pinching yourself for awhile, boredom will seem nice next to being in pain.
Try to swallow your tongue
(Amusement Potential: 1-2 minutes)
There's not much to say about this one. It is possible, but really stupid.
Pretend to be a car
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Make appropriate revving noises in your head as you walk along and add a racing commentary as you pass strangers in the street. Use blinking eyes as indicators for extra authenticity.
Make Star Trek door noises
(Amusement Potential: 1-2 minutes)
Stand by an electric door to a bank or something and make that silly "Scccccccchwop" sound heard whenever people popped on to the bridge to hang with Captain Kirk.
Look at something for awhile, shut eyes, study after image
(Amusement Potential: 2-5 minutes)
Another great time waster. It takes about 30 seconds of staring to create an after image, and the image is then viewable for about the same length of time. Fun to combine this one with pushing on your eyes.
Get yourself as nauseated as possible
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Best achieved by looking straight up and spinning around. Try to be so dizzy you can't even stand up. This is also entertaining due to the "makes boredom seem a lot better" effect (see "Hurt Yourself").
Invent a weird twitch
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Adopt a bizarre twitch (e.g. flicking your head irregularly, twitching with eye or busting out sporadic cough noises) and try it out when you go shopping.
Make a low buzzing noise
(Amusement Potential: 15-30 minutes)
Hours of fun in libraries! Keeping a totally straight face and looking nonchalant, make a low pitch humming/buzzing noise and see who reacts.
Blink wildly and then close your eyes really tight for an interesting light show
(Amusement Potential: 1-5 minutes)
See a variety of blobs, stars and flashes. Try to make out shapes and see if your subconscious is trying to send you a message (perhaps that funny shape is saying, 'send all your money to urban75.com'?)
See how long you can hold a note
(Amusement Potential: 4-20 minutes)
Not that much fun, but it sure passes the time. Play with a friend, or try to beat your own personal best. Inhale deeply and then try and make a noise for as long as you can. Earn extra points for making your partner laugh or ending on an amusing note.
Try to not think about penguins
(Amusement Potential: 1-5 minutes)
This is especially hard, because by trying too much, you remember what you were trying to avoid thinking of. If you try too little, you end up thinking about penguins anyway.
Use your secret mind power
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Pick a passing by and try to use your mind power to command them do something, like drop their bag or knock into someone. The law of averages dictates that sooner or later one of your mind commands will come true, so you can convince yourself that you really have super human powers and waste even more time trying them out.
Pretend you're a robot
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
Walk down the street with mechanical movements, adding 'zzzzzt' sounds with each motion. Pretending to have a motor broken in, say, your left hand can add at least 30 seconds more entertainment.
Scratch yourself
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
Go ahead, scratch yourself now. Even if nothing itches, go ahead. Doesn't that feel pretty good?
Rate passers by
(Amusement Potential: 10-15 minutes)
Secretly award passers by marks out of ten as you go along, offering (unsaid) expert criticism over their clothing, hairstyle and footwear choices.
Repeat the same word over and over until it loses its meaning
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
Pick a random word out of a magazine and say it aloud to yourself until it becomes a meaningless set of noises.
Pinch yourself
(Amusement Potential: 1-3 minutes)
What is pain? Why is it unpleasant? There's nothing physical about it - it's all in your mind. Plus, after pinching yourself for awhile, boredom will seem nice next to being in pain.
Try to swallow your tongue
(Amusement Potential: 1-2 minutes)
There's not much to say about this one. It is possible, but really stupid.
Pretend to be a car
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Make appropriate revving noises in your head as you walk along and add a racing commentary as you pass strangers in the street. Use blinking eyes as indicators for extra authenticity.
Make Star Trek door noises
(Amusement Potential: 1-2 minutes)
Stand by an electric door to a bank or something and make that silly "Scccccccchwop" sound heard whenever people popped on to the bridge to hang with Captain Kirk.
Look at something for awhile, shut eyes, study after image
(Amusement Potential: 2-5 minutes)
Another great time waster. It takes about 30 seconds of staring to create an after image, and the image is then viewable for about the same length of time. Fun to combine this one with pushing on your eyes.
Get yourself as nauseated as possible
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Best achieved by looking straight up and spinning around. Try to be so dizzy you can't even stand up. This is also entertaining due to the "makes boredom seem a lot better" effect (see "Hurt Yourself").
Invent a weird twitch
(Amusement Potential: 5-10 minutes)
Adopt a bizarre twitch (e.g. flicking your head irregularly, twitching with eye or busting out sporadic cough noises) and try it out when you go shopping.
Make a low buzzing noise
(Amusement Potential: 15-30 minutes)
Hours of fun in libraries! Keeping a totally straight face and looking nonchalant, make a low pitch humming/buzzing noise and see who reacts.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
I decided to write
I know that words basically explain everything and that actions confirm them. here today, i decided to write.
What i go through, the opinions i have and the ideas i might bring.
What i go through, the opinions i have and the ideas i might bring.
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